@local3ntity

I was too distracted by the tofu to listen the first watch lmao

@ArcadeChan

Irys, straight to the point. We need more like her!

@Mekaizer

tsundere only works if you want anoying in IRL, when all ask you do something and you said no, but you do it xDDD

@pikac4581

She sounds like she’s speaking from experience 👀

@surfingraichu7594

IRyS giving up on the Kronii route after almost 4 years?

@oak8194

That's why Kuudere are the best! XD

@TheInfoDealerV

being a tsundere to me in real life means you’re not coming home to see my parents and you’re not welcome to stick around as “dinner friends”

@lawrencehan463

Fear tho

@TheMrrccava

Like....im very in my own head about how im unwanted completely. IF YOU WANT ME TELL ME CAUSE I AINT LOOKIN CAUSE I FEEL LIKE IM NOT WORTH YOUR TIME

@jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj454

The difference bring every women in real life is a tsundere cuz they all be playing mind games and have to guess impossible singnals

@melkorstormcrown6939

I think Yandere IRL is not bad

@ChaosAngel667

It used to work but doesnt work anymore, in manosphere is called "the handkerchief".

Basically in the past women showed intention by giving socially agreed upon gestures OR clear rejection signs such as dropping the handkerchief as a conversation starter and if she wanted to continue  she had to say something like "I wanna thank you by bringing you a cupcake next time you are around here" or something like that. Denying the handkerchief was hers and telling the man to keep it means "you are not my intended target". All clear signs that men would learn and enhance.

It also allowed to know if a girl dropped the handkerchief a lot for many men she was considered "not worth pursuing".

Today equivalent is completely lost, the closest is "swip left" and its not clear that the girl wants you to message her and you know she is doing it for hundreds so not worth pursuing.

So everyone playing "hard to get" knew what they were playing and knew it was a 2 person game, it allowed for clear intentions on both parts, you got tsundere girls and yandere boys "I spent 2 hours making this plum cake but that doesnt mean I fancy you" vs "I am dropping flowers everyday at your window so everyone knows I like you".

@mugenusv8290

Everyone wants a  tsundere/yandere as a partner but in reality they want vanilla but afraid to admit it

@Teh_Akod

Same goes for manic pixie girlies. In fiction, very cute. In real life, annoying AF.

@lonelyloner3742

In real life, romance is just an urban myth. You can't change my mind. Some people just have "interactions with women" DLC bought to their lives that I don't have

@Dee_Sandoval

Imagine a job. As an employer, if a guy comes in off the street and asked you if you're hiring and you say "no" and they walk away. Or, if a guy asks you if you're hiring and you say "no", then he comes back the next day with a resume and asks if you're still not hiring, then he comes back in a suit with a more professional resume and asks if you're hiring...
Between the two, who would you hire?
Obviously the guy that REALLY wants the job, not the guy who thinks of you as just a clock-in clock-out paycheck as he asks every store manager once as he walks the business strip.

The more you try to win someone's affection shows you see them as worth the trouble to WIN your affection. Not treat you as a passing opportunity.

OF COURSE the trick is to not be annoying by not understanding you've stepped over an irreversible bound... "will you give me your number" "no" "will you give me your number" "no" "will you give me your number" "no". AND AT THE SAME TIME a girl can be in rhe wrong by playing games, like saying "yes" and then not answer his phone calls thinking you're "playing hard to get".

There ABSOLUTELY IS a right way, and a wrong way, to do each.
There is no umbrella "doing THIS is wrong! And doing THAT is right!" When you're not overstepping bounds. A big part is picking up subtle nuances. I personally believe NOT having real life contact with people have made people lose the concept of those subtle nuances by having the majority or even ALL our human contact online. With that you lose the ability to pick up HOW they act when they seem disinterested. It's called body language. The same way looking at someone's eyes, gestures, body posture, those things can mean the world of difference. You can't pick that up online. The result is guys not knowing when to stop, and girls not knowing who will really treasure you and who just thinks of you as just a body until they can trade up. 

ALSO, let me just say, you think that just already knowing what body language is and ACTUALLY putting that knowledge into practice are the same thing?
If someone tells you how to stop a knife attack by disarming them, and you visually understand it, BUT NEVER put it to practice or practice the move, do you think you can really stop a knife attack?
Knowing something, and putting it to practice are COMPLETELY different things even if you choose not to believe it.

@Elilymo

it bad in anime too
wat annoying stay annoying, real or fake